Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Rogerian Argument

Introduction of the problem
            Community when you think about it, is a very important thing and it can really have a huge effect on people’s lives believe it or not. Depending on the circumstances it can turn someone into something you wouldn’t have expected before you even know it. One thing that has a huge effect on community is poverty. Poverty in a community is one of the most common reasons why some people end up like the way they do because they are brought up around nothing but poor structured households and they don’t really have anything or anyone to guide them and teach them the right from wrong. Children that are raised or brought up around communities that are dealing with poverty issues tend to get in more trouble and commit crimes then children that are raised in a stable community.In early childhood, it is estimated that approximately one in four children in the US (National Center for Children in Poverty 2014) and one in two children worldwide live in poverty (globalissues.org 2013). Studies indicate that young children living in economically disadvantaged environments often begin school with fewer basic academic and social–emotional skills (Bernier et al. 2010; Magnuson et al. 2004; Thornberry et al. 2009). Additionally, socioeconomic (SES) factors, such as family income, parental level of education, and parental occupation, have been shown to impact language, cognitive, and social– emotional development in children (Kagan et al. 1978; Raver 2004; Roberts et al. 1999; Zubrick et al. 2007). Economic, environmental, and family stressors can result in later achievement deficits that begin in early childhood and compound through the years (Evans and Rosenbaum 2008; Howse et al. 2003; McClelland et al. 2000; SohrPreston and Scaramella 2006)”( Examining Effects of Poverty, Maternal Depression, and Children’s Self-Regulation Abilities on the Development of Language and Cognition in Early Childhood: An Early Head Start Perspective). “As children mature and develop, the quality and quantity of the language they are exposed to strongly influences their cognitive development (Thomas 2005). As a child’s use of language advances, speech plays an integral role in guiding a child’s activities, as well as their behavior (Vygotsky 1934/2012, 1934/1978). Vygotsky emphasized the importance of adult–child interactions for the interrelated development of emotional connections, language, and the facilitation of children’s engagement in symbolic activities and creative play (Thomas 2005)” (Examining Effects of Poverty, Maternal Depression, and Children’s Self-Regulation Abilities on the Development of Language and Cognition in Early Childhood: An Early Head Start Perspective)
Exploration of others position
            Although poverty plays a big role in communities and how they affect a child’s life some people think that maybe it isn’t the poverty that makes the children turn out bad. There are many different views and opinions on what makes children act the way they do. It could be because of the things they experienced in the household like rape or abuse that they didn’t speak up about and now it’s having a negative effect on their lives, it could even be because that’s just how they want to be. I remember seeing a video about this thirteen year old kid that always skipped school with his friends and he also stole his grandmother car and drove it around the city and later on ended up crashing it. The grandmother was so shocked by the little boy’s actions because she wasn’t raising him to steal from people and she was always on his behind about doing well and school and making good grades. So she couldn’t figure out why he would be doing these types of things, but when they interviewed the little boy he told the reporter that he “just wanted to do hood rat things with his friends”. So growing up in a bad household isn’t necessarily the only reason that would effect a child’s life when it comes to them having bad behaviors or acting out in bad ways. If people take the time out to actually listen to children and actually pay attention to them then there would be an actual understanding on why children do what they do. For example, my little cousins are bad as heck and they don’t listen to their mother at all but when I come around them they are smiling and want to play around and I think that is because when I’m with them I sit down with them and play the game and play around with them and they just have a good time with me in general. So it’s more of an understanding them aspect rather than them being bad because they are in a troubling home, which is not the case with them at all.   
Exploration of writer’s position
            Where I stand is that even though poverty in the community is not always the case it seems to be one of the main reasons. Even though poverty effects the whole community you don’t see too many girls acting out or doing outrages things. You tend to see more of the outrageous behavior in boys, study say that boys that are in troubling communities tend to have worst behaviors then boys in a stable community. This is because when they go outside all they have around them are a bunch of bad influences so they just suck in all of the bad influences and it effects them tremendously.
 Conclusion

            There are a couple of reasons why I think boys tend to end up worst then girls do. One is because girls don’t go outside as much as boys do so they aren’t influenced by the things that are going on outside like the guys on the corner etc. second is because in most communities with poverty they are single parent homes and most of the time it’s the mother who has to take care of the children so the boys don’t really have that father figure in their life to let them know they the stuff they are doing isn’t the right thing to be doing. And telling them that they shouldn’t want to be a follower they should want to be a leader in life. So I feel like if the fathers would be more in their son’s life to teach them right from wrong they wouldn’t turn out the way they do.

Monday, May 1, 2017

have to get my shit back together

so this semester has been a tough semseter to get through. ive been through a lot just in this one semester. i cant even explain in words how im feeling right now but i know god wouldnt put you through anything that you couldnt handle and right now im tryng to be a strong as i possibly can. i know this semester may have changed some peoples perception of me but thats okay because i know thats not the person i am. and i have to build and learn from my mistakes. when im doing what i need to then thats when they will all see that im really not a bad person or a loose screw and that i have my head on right.

week Thirteen

Heart by kodak black this represents me because i always kept it real from the start and i shouldnt have never gave this girl my heart because all she did was play with it.No Love by august alsina i pick this song because ive had my heart broken and thats just how i feel now. thats what i like by bruno mars i chose this song because its a good song and it is very catchy and thats whati like. say goodbye by chris brown i chose this song because some times its hard to say goodbye to someone but you know its the right thing to do even if you know you dont wanna do it. back to sleep by chris brown this song is a little bit more personal but if you listen to it you will catch the drift. desire by dej loaf i picked this song because he really spoke to me o this track, i have to go and get everything i desire. been on my grind by dej loaf she spoke to me on this track as well because i have to keep grinding so i can get to where i wanna be. furthest thing by drake i pick this song because im the furthest thing from perfect but i try to do my bes even though at some moments i know im not doing my best, U with me? by drake i picked this song because i need to know if the people that say they with me are really with me, until the end of time by justin timberlake i pick this song because when i do fall in love again i hope its until the end of time.